Many people feel that they can control other people. You cannot control other people you can only control your role in their lives. Countless people around the country realize that the one person that is causing them to drift is sometimes the person closest to them. That can be especially hard if that person is a spouse.

We certainly wouldn’t advocate someone getting a divorce, but you do need to take inventory of those around you and their role in your life. Sometimes you have friends just for a season. The average friendship only last about five years. We move on, and we grow.

In your quest to find your Infinite Blue Ocean you may not want to limit yourself to the people you know. It helps to see new friends, people who are like-minded, and people who hold you accountable for reaching your goals.

It is essential to keep your circle of friends small, and the quality of your friends will reflect directly on your mission to get your Infinite Blue Ocean.