Many people feel that they can control other people. You cannot control other people you can only control your role in their lives. Countless people around the country realize that the one person that is causing them to drift is sometimes the person closest to them. That can be especially hard if that person is.. read more →

08 Nov 2017
November 8, 2017

You need to think BIG!

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How can we break through the boundaries we’ve set for ourselves?  Sometimes we assign the role of Enormous Thinker to some people, but we don’t fundamentally see ourselves in that position, Often, that’s because of voices of conclusion – either negative peers and associates telling you why something will never work, or your own adopted.. read more →

07 Nov 2017
November 7, 2017

Best Use of Energy

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Each day, a significant amount of energy may be required to accomplish what is needed. I want to make sure I’m using my energy in a productive way. I’ve found it helpful to focus my time and efforts on that which brings the greatest return. Also, emotions can be a drain, so focus on what you.. read more →

This Sunday I found out that I was setting myself up for failure by getting excited about a football game. Earlier in the day as I usually do on Sundays I have a mastermind Conference Call. During that mastermind Conference Call, I find myself energized to accomplish even more goals. If anyone knows me, they.. read more →

26 Oct 2017
October 26, 2017

Develop good habits

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Probably more than anything else, where I get in life will be the result of my habits. Effective habits are habitual ways of thinking and acting that bring me closer to my definite purpose each day. Bad habits, however, can easily derail me from my purpose and bring about drifting and defeat. I have found.. read more →

21 Oct 2017
October 21, 2017

Create a Mastermind Group

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A major reason people fail is they do not build an effective mastermind group. The people we surround ourselves with are critical to success. If I’m trying something new or different I want people near me who will help me to succeed and not hold me back. Find people who have gotten where you want.. read more →

17 Oct 2017
October 17, 2017

A very harsh reality

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Victims never win. Whiners and complainers never win. This may be a very harsh reality but one that needs to be said. We are now in the grips of a very very volatile political situation. As a whole, the country is being distracted. The same political climate happened in the 80s when everyone was focused.. read more →

Recently I got married, and during couples counseling, the pastor instructed us to never go to bed mad. What he meant by this is Do not let the sun go down on your anger. Here at Infinite Blue Ocean, we teach people whatever you think about grows. If your last conscious thought was anger, then.. read more →

06 Jul 2017
July 6, 2017

Destructive Beliefs

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It strikes me as odd that people will hold on to destructive beliefs before changing their minds. There are a group of people on a social media platform that believes that all individuals that are successful got that way by cheating, corruption or some entitlement. They did not want to hear about solid work plans.. read more →

Thomas was a relatively successful man, but it was built on one principle that he was smarter than everyone else in the room. He was never wrong, and people who are more talented than he was would be reminded of whose name is actually on the company door. Thomas often mentioned to clients that he.. read more →

Sometimes you do not have to be right it’s best to be quiet. Some people are inflexible in their thinking. They think that their way is right regardless of any information or scientific proof that they are wrong in these cases it is best to be quiet. Do not waste energy on people who are.. read more →

A personal Blueprint is a method of conduct that individuals choose in order to achieve one or more individual or professional goal. People usually write down action plans to more easily follow the sequence of steps that it takes for these plans to come to fruition. Personal Blueprints are also called private goal plans or.. read more →

Having gigantic dreams for your future is important. Nevertheless, failing to plan is preparation to fail. So if you cannot think big about your prospect, you’re not going to have an immense future. Huge, of course, means a dream that takes you beyond than where you are today. One thing I’ve learned over the ages.. read more →

People who drain the life out of you with constant negativity, complaints, gossip, selfishness, or extreme dependency are destructive. People can be toxic in diverse ways, but nevertheless, of what kind of toxicity they bring to a relationship, they just must go. One toxic individual in my life was manipulative of my time and assets,.. read more →

In today’s climate, many people are looking for answers outside of themselves. It is unfortunate that people blame others for their situations. Many times they are seeking to find out the person hindering any success is the person themselves. Recently I went to hire someone for a job assisting my staff and me. This person’s.. read more →

People like Napoleon Hill, Brian Tracy and even the Bible speak on the benefits of sex on your mind. Sex releases endorphins that are 10 1/2 times more potent than morphine. This chemical mixture is responsible for production. It’s about the endorphins in your body you come up with ideas. If you’re anxious about tomorrow’s.. read more →

05 Jan 2017
January 5, 2017

When you are in the ZONE!

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You may be familiar with this feeling: you sit down to write, paint, design, or code and you find yourself completely caught up in the moment. When you finally stop to take a break, you are surprised by the fact that three hours have gone by. Psychologists call this experiencing “flow,” otherwise referred to as.. read more →

23 Dec 2016
December 23, 2016

I was Bah Humbug until now

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I used to really hate Christmas. Well, not hate, but I really didn’t care for it in a way that others found perplexing and a little hard to swallow. It may or may not have had something to do with being a typical moody bah humbug 40 something guy that found the dual threat of.. read more →

The first mistake people make, especially at the beginning of the year, is trying to achieve too many goals all at once. The second mistake is expecting immediate progress. It’s pretty unrealistic to think you’ll start eating better, working out, and getting eight hours of sleep—overnight! A superior approach is to identify and build keystone.. read more →

Just a note we are not marriage counselors, nor are we therapist. Sometimes clients realize they need to make a change based on their own experiences in the direction they want to go to in their lives. Some people realize when may want to make changes for the better and advise the person that is.. read more →

21 Nov 2016
November 21, 2016

Keep Your Persistence

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Understanding that successful people do need persistence to achieve success will inspire you to be persistent yourself. So find and read the life stories of successful people throughout the history. While most people recognize them only through their achievements, by reading their stories we will understand the persistence they need on the way to success… read more →

I recently moved and my fiancé is fashioning a delightful atmosphere here nevertheless it should not end there. A positive attitude is important. Focus your mind more attentively on what you are doing. This will train your mind to transmit more powerful vibrations. Practice concentration exercises. This strengthens your ability to choose your thoughts, and.. read more →